Liar liar; understanding why the narcissist lies.
The #gaslighting antics of a #narcissist leaves many of us confused, bewildered as we ask ourselves what we have done to deserve such kind of treatment. Why is it so easy for a narcissist to lie and why do they hurt us with their lies?
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In this video, Christian life coach, and author Shannon Gilmour shares with you some insight that you can use as you travel down the path of #selfawareness. The lying ways of the narcissist are #manipulative and there is nothing you can do to stop them from lying. A toxic person lies because they can, and because they will. You can be a regal saint and the narcissist would still lie to your face and behind your back. It matters not who you are or how good, kind and benevolent you are. The narcissist does not have your back because they are only looking out for themselves.
The narcissist cannot help but lie. They use lying to their advantage and although you feel their lies as deliberate attacks against you and the relationship, they lie for reasons that have nothing to do with you. They lie because they can, and because they have to. Lying to the narcissist is equivalent to the response of why the scorpion stung the frog who asked for assistance. The frog asked the scorpion why it stung the frog and the scorpion said this in response ' I can't help it; it is in my nature.' This is true with a narcissist. If they lie to you, they lie to others and if they lie to others they lie to you. The reason the narcissist lies is deep; soul deep and in this video I share with you that the lying narcissist is also a liar to themselves.
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